What are the things your friends and family never told you about life as a Working Parent? Kristin Maschka, the past president and national spokesperson for Mothers & More, answers…
Does work-life balance exist? By now, you’ve probably gleaned that former General Electric (GE) chairman Jack Welch doesn’t think so. On June 28, during a speech at the Society for…
Would you take career advice from a workaholic? Cornell University’s 2009 graduating class heard work-life tips from David Plouffe, President Barack Obama’s campaign manager. According to The Cornell Daily Sun,…
O.K., so a seminar on derivatives systems isn’t exactly what my son had in mind for his 11th birthday today. But he was thrilled when he discovered his birthday would…
Here’s a guest post from Nell Merlino, an author and creator of Take Our Daughters (and now Sons) to Work Day: Women are on the verge of holding more jobs…
I wrote about the term work-life balance and whether or not it is a misnomer back in December. The truth is that when you look for balance, achieving it is…
It is 5 am on a Saturday morning, and I am on my computer, doing research for a story, cleaning up email, all the stuff that I didn’t get time…
Here I am. Sunday. The kids are going to bed, and I have to accomplish my last task of the week before I collapse into bed. Write this blog. It…
This entry is written by BusinessWeek contributing editor Mark Hyman, who is the author of Until It Hurts (Beacon), a book about impact of parents, coaches and other adults on…
I, like many people in the financial world, have not seen much of my family this week. I hope they remember who I am. Most of the time, I do…
As I read the news today about the thousands of people that are coming to work so they can pack their personal belongings, several things cross my mind—but at the…
Over on BusinessWeek’s First Jobs blog, Lou Lavelle has a great post about the excuses people have used to explain absences from work or lateness. It’s from a Stanford School…
This is written by Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, a freelance financial journalist who guest blogs for Working Parents every other Friday. It is a truth pretty much universally acknowledged that anyone who…
On my way to the McGraw-Hill Credit Union today, CNN was airing an interview with Bruce Weinstein, aka “The Ethics Guy,” about the ethics of taking vacations. In his BusinessWeek.com…
The New York Times, on the heels of the news last week that the late hotel queen Leona Helmsley left $8 billion in a charitable trust for the care and…
With the 4th of July approaching, it’s a good time for working mothers in America to thank our founding fathers. They did us two great favors—they freed us from European…
I love destroying popular memes with cold, hard facts. Take “Working Moms Opting Out.” Feature stories about professional women dropping out of the workforce to stay home with the kids…
One afternoon last week three girlfriends—all moms—and I got together for the guilty pleasure (see fellow blogger Cathy Arnst’s post) of watching the Sex and the City movie. As we…
Last week I inadvertently started a fire storm with my post Worst. Working. Mom. Ever. It was meant to give readers a chuckle by pointing to a lighthearted site where…
Feel like you’re letting your kids down, and your job, by trying to do ten things at once? Cheer up, you’re not alone. How much not alone? Check out the…
For Mother’s Day, my daughter gave me pink and orange snapdragons, my favorite walnut sticky bun, and space—space in our busy lives to just hang out. In a gesture almost…
Wow, the power of the blog! Last week, after a frustrating phone interaction with Time-Warner Cable, I complained on Working Parents about cable companies and other service providers that can…
It’s not just Time-Warner that I hate. It’s the phone company (any phone company), Con Edison, Sears, indeed any service organization that thinks the world has not moved beyond the…
This is written by Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, a freelance financial journalist now living in The Netherlands who guest blogs for Working Parents every other Friday. Now that I’m a mother, I…
It’s been a high anxiety month for many families, and I’m not talking about the tax deadline. In the past few weeks, many colleges have been responding to freshman applications,…
Most of us working parents are addicted to the Time Excuse. You know: “I just cannot find the time to read/exercise/cook/clean/see friends/organize my desk yadda yadda yadda.” I use it…
This is written by Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, a freelance financial journalist now living in The Netherlands who guest blogs for Working Parents. I saw the call coming in on my cell…
Last month, before my daughter and I went away for spring break vacation, I blogged on teen travel safety. One thing I didn’t cover was cell phone security. Naturally, my…
Recent financial worries led me to a surprising question: Does it make sense for both my husband and me to work? A little background: Five years ago, the aforementioned husband…
After late school meeting a few weeks ago, a parent looked out at the stormy night and said with a mixture of sarcasm and resignation: “I wonder who’ll be walking…
I’m still not sure which of the Presidential candidates I want to see in the White House next year. But as a working parent, I do know that I’d like…
It was at curriculum night for incoming freshmen at my daughter’s prospective high school that it hit me. Next fall she isn’t just moving to “Upper School,” she is entering…
At a private middle school athletic meet in New York, a girl ran to her parents with a predicament: The sports official wasn’t allowing her to race unless she took…
This is written by Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, a freelance financial journalist now living in The Netherlands who guest blogs for Working Parents every other Friday. Financial troubles at one of the…
On Martin Luther King weekend I went on retreat—from technology. By that I mean I did without TV, cell phone, and the Internet. That may seem like an odd thing…
Nine years ago, Amy Dunkin hired me at BusinessWeek. At the time, I had a ten-month-old son and I wondered how I’d juggle my new role as a mom with…
Most working parents can relate to the stress Anne feels at holiday time. (See her post below.) So much to do and buy, and as always, so little time. To…
Last night at 8 p.m., after a full day at the office, when the homework was finished, dinner was eaten, the dishes were done, and the kids had dispersed in…
Sometimes it pays to step out of our crazy working parent lives and focus on The Things That Really Matter. That’s what I did a few weeks ago when I…
I just finished Book 4 of the Harry Potter series and I’m taking a breather before I plunge into the next 870-page tome. My sons aren’t quite Harry Potter fanatics…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist now living in The Netherlands who frequently guest blogs for Working Parents. This is what I love the most about my freelance writing…
I told my mother I was having a senior moment. She, a card-carrying senior, quickly set me straight. “We don’t say that,” she told me, the “we” presumably referring to…
This week, the work/family columnists for The New York Times and The Wall Street Journal weighed in on the subject of business meals and how they cut into already limited…
Just when I thought I was finally on easy street—not only was I able to find time to program my iPod on Saturday, I actually read a few chapters of…
It’s hard to believe the Working Parents blog will celebrate its second anniversary in January. While much of the fodder for our posts comes from our daily conversations “around the…
Overheard in the office elevator this morning, one woman to another: “Sleep is going to be the new marketing tactic, because you age well when you sleep more. I’m going…
I’ve written before about how in a family-friendly workplace, any day can be Take Our Children to Work Day. This week we had one of those days. Monday was Columbus…
Like many working parents, I’ve become so used to prioritizing my family and job that I reflexively turn down invitations to do things for myself. I’m not into total self-denial:…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist who frequently guest blogs for Working Parents. I just took a month off my freelance writing career to move from the south of…
Most working parents would love to get off and on the fast track at will, depending on the ages of their children and the demands from home. But few jobs…
Think your life is overwhelming? The BBC reported on Tuesday about a British woman who was whipping up a dinner party when she took a break to give birth in…
Sometimes, I feel like a machine: the laundry, the blog, the email, the homework, the grocery shopping, the birthday party planning, the research reports-—and that’s just what I’ve done since…
Big news around our company yesterday. Our employer, The McGraw-Hill Cos., was named to Working Mother magazine’s 100 Best List for the third year in a row, and this time,…
I am not now or have ever been a big cell phone user. You will not see me sitting on the train, walking around the streets of New York, or…
I recently read a great post about the silliness that is the so-called “mommy wars.” It’s from a blog that is well worth bookmarking, Time magazine’s Work In Progress, a…
Last week, we took our three boys and tents and went camping in Maine. We pitched our tents near the rocky shore of Blue Hill Bay, a spot so remote…
The beginning of the school year is a shock to the system of any parent after the carefree days of summer. It is especially challenging for a working parent. The…
It’s every worker’s dream: take as much vacation time as you want, on short notice, and don’t worry about your boss calling you on it. Cut out early, make it…
Today at lunchtime, sitting with my soda in a shady plaza with a waterfall behind a tall office building on a beautiful day in New York, I had a revelation….
If you’re frustrated and unhappy about the burdensome demands of balancing job and family, then get some perspective and watch Mad Men, a new dramatic series Thursdays at 10 pm…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist. This is her tenth guest blog for Working Parents. Depending on who I am with, I either play up or play down the…
All of us who work and lead lives outside the office—that’s just about everyone who works, actually—constantly feel pressed for time. Now we know why. I came across these revealing…
A few weeks ago, I interviewed several friends who’ve recently walked away from successful careers (“Working Moms Who’ve Recently Quit Working”). To me, the biggest surprise was that these women…
I’m not a big fan of the small electronic devices a growing number of adults (and children) walk around with these days. With their thumbs jabbing, they gaze into their…
There’s an old saying in journalism—three examples make for a trend. Using that definition, I’ve identified a surprising trend among my friends and neighbors. Over the past six months, several…
Corporations woke up to the need for family-friendly benefits when women began entering the workforce in droves in the 1980s and 1990s. But for a long time, benefits managers say,…
It’s a Tuesday afternoon, and I’m where I can be found most Tuesdays—at my desk, reporting a story and writing this blog. Where I am NOT is at my first…
I love summer: As I’m sure was true of my Norwegian ancestors, I eagerly anticipate the extra long daylight hours. Even a sweltering 90 degree day in Manhattan is fine…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist. This is her seventh guest blog for Working Parents. Two weeks ago, I had my first job interview in years. It came to…
Earlier this week, I was a guest on NPR’s “Talk of the Nation” talking about the ever-expanding age limits on motherhood. (You can listen to the link here.) According to…
As the school year winds down, the kids’ excitement is ramping up—and so is my work load. Yes, its here – the happiest of times for school-weary children; the most…
My son’s friend’s mother was telling me that she works in the building right above Grand Central Terminal. It’s a great location and so convenient: The train we take is…
If you have a child adopted from China, I guarantee you own a copy of I Love You Like Crazy Cakes, By Rose Lewis, a beautiful picture book for…
My last blog—essentially a complaint that moms, even when they’re the primary breadwinners, are often the ones to take primary responsibility for organizing the household and the kids—certainly struck a…
Fellow Working Parent blogger Anne Tergesen stirred up a firestorm last week with her entry, The Elusive 50/50 Division of Labor, in which she raised the oft-heard complaint that men…
I was chatting with a new acquaintance at a dinner party on Saturday when we realized we had the same secret mother’s best friend: the local hardware man. Obviously, we…
A reader sent me this comment in response to my recent blog entry, My Chaotic Day: “Sadly I have no opportunity to work from home, I’m at the office all…
I’m no Don Imus. But I’m about to say something a broad segment of the population—working dads—may find objectionable, if not politically incorrect. O.K., here goes: Why is it that…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist who lives with her family in Mysore, India. This is her fourth guest blog for Working Parents. When I was a child, I…
The fact that I’ve become a two-dimensional person—one part mom; the other part finance geek—came into sharp focus on a trip we took to Washington DC last week. At one…
When I tell people I work from home one day a week, they invariably remark at how lucky I am to have such a flexible job. Indeed, I am always…
Last night my father-in-law installed a gate between the dining room and kitchen. It was just the latest move in a game of keep-away we are playing with my now…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist who lives with her family in Mysore, India. This is her third guest blog for Working Parents. I’ve never been great at playing…
Yesterday I wrote about yet another study linking soda pop to all kinds of health dangers. That posting got a comment from one mother, Cordelia, who wonders if she should…
Tamara Monosoff is the founder of Mom Inventors, a Walnut Creek (Calif.) company that licenses consumer products from entrepreneurial moms. The company handles the manufacturing and distribution, paying the “momtrepreneurs”…
Here at BusinessWeek, we often cross paths with the nation’s highest level working parents, corporate CEOs. And we wonder: How do they achieve work-life balance in their own hectic lives?…
The other night at bedtime, my 10-year-old son popped the question that always seems to stab a working mother right in the heart. “Mom, why can’t you quit your job…
Happy Valentine’s Day to all the Working Parents readers out there! Careful magazine readers know I’m also the self-annointed chocolate expert here at BusinessWeek. (Make sure you check out my…
It’s 3:15 p.m. Do you know where your children are? Happily, on most days, I know where mine are. They’re just out of school and on the nearest available cell…
For the six years my amazing nanny Cheryl worked for me, people would always ask me how I could possibly manage as a single working mother. “Easy,” I said, “I…
Savita Iyer is a freelance financial journalist who lives with her family in Mysore, India. After she recently wrote a story for BusinessWeek’s Executive Life section about the Ashtanga yoga…
I am writing this from deep in the heart of Maine, where I’m on an assignment (yes, the glamorous life of a reporter: Maine in January). As a single parent,…
I’m glad it’s official. A front page story in today’s New York Times says women in politics no longer have to downplay their roles as mothers to be considered serious…
Like many working parents, I’m no stranger to feeling overwhelmed. Last Friday was one of those days. First, my four-year-old threatened to boycott his swim lesson. My mind was cluttered…
I haven’t been a mom for that long. (Two years, 75 days, 14 hours, but who is counting?) In my short time on Earth as a parent, I’ve noticed more…
Like everyone, I love vacation. But re-entry to normal, everyday life can be painful. Sometimes, the shock of re-entry makes me even question whether going away is worth it at…
It’s that time of year when we are busy delaying the start of all those New Year’s resolutions we made with the best of intentions. If one of your resolutions…
Do you notice how so much of the world still operates on a time schedule that’s out of sync with a working parent’s day? The PTA committee you’d like to…
Back in the fat days, in the late 90s when the magazine was so thick with ads the staples could barely hold it together, management used to throw one wingding…
For your musical enjoyment, click here before you read this entry… One of the joys of working at a weekly magazine is that it operates on a set publishing schedule….
My friend, Jill Jonnes, writes books for a living. Her latest, Conquering Gotham, A Gilded Age Epic: The Construction of Penn Station and Its Tunnels, is coming out in late…
The cover article in this week’s issue of BusinessWeek(“Smashing the Clock”) profiles an idea that could be a dream come true for many working parents. Retailer Best Buy is rolling-out…
During our annual Thanksgiving family gathering in Pittsburgh, we got to talking about how technology has changed our lives. One of my nieces mentioned how frustrating it was that her…
Traveling internationally has lots of advantages: You’re away from your daily routine, you get to see new places, and you can eat well on the boss’ tab. But it also…
Finally, a study that’s not trying to make us working moms feel guilty. A new study finds that working mothers aren’t spending any less time with their kids than mothers…
In “Shape Your Self: My 6-Step Diet and Fitness Plan to Achieve the Best Shape of Your Life,” tennis star Martina Navratilova has a chapter called “Build Your Support Team.”…
Summer’s over, school’s back in session, and the family dinner—Say What! Who has time for a family dinner? As hard as it may be for working parents, indeed, any parents,…
While I live in the most urban of cities (New York), my sister Didi has spent most of her adult life deep in the woods. It’s not easy to find…
When the Caller ID said Kingston, Jamaica, it wasn’t a good sign. Sure enough, our nanny was calling to say her flight home had been cancelled due to Hurricane Ernesto….
I just got back from a week of hiking and camping in California’s Sierra Mountains. In many ways, I really “got away from it all,” as they say. There was…
Last week, our tech department handed me a little gadget that fits on my key chain. It churns out a steady stream of numerical codes that, when input into a…
When it comes to supplying our daughter with all the mother’s milk she needs, my wife Lyn has done an amazing job. Outside of some operational difficulties during the first…
Two months ago I went back to work full-time after five years of working three days a week. The timing couldn’t have been better. My husband, Neil, had just resigned…
Anne Tergesen’s July 26th blog entry, Work and Family: How Gen Y Plans to Do It, resonated with one of our Gen Y summer interns, Romy Drucker. Romy (pictured below)…
Today marks the start of World Breastfeeding Awareness Week. As an adoptive parent, I have absolutely no personal experience with the subject. So I asked BusinessWeek’s “resident expert,” Diane Brady,…
I knew it was going to happen, just not so soon. That is, the urge for my two young sons to be wired—-to sit front of some type of screen…
Recently, I had dinner with a friend I’ve known since we were just months old. We talked a lot about her two young daughters and my three young sons. We…
Many people may think that the magazine business is like the “The Devil Wears Prada.” But here at BusinessWeek families are in style. When the magazine appointed Steve Adler as…
As fellow bloggers David and James have made clear, work/life balance isn’t just an issue for moms. Cali Yost’s Work+Life Fit Blog has an interesting post today on what dads…
An incredible thing happened to me yesterday. At approximately 6:00 last night, I crossed the last item off my typically jam-packed “to do” list. I’m a big list-maker. In high…
We’ve blogged a fair amount about the time pressures we all face, and how difficult it is to accept volunteer projects on top of everything else we do. Soledad O’Brien,…
My colleague, Cathy Arnst, highlighted a suggestion from another blog in her Tips from the Fast Track posting a few days ago: “As your kids age, have them help out…
When I graduated from college more years ago than I care to count, I landed a job as an editorial assistant (ie: slave) at book publisher Viking Penguin. I was…
My colleagues and fellow bloggers, Anne Tergesen and Amy Dunkin, have both recently written about volunteering and the working parent. Their comments inspired me to think about how I choose…
I enjoyed the comments my first blog attracted on the subject of volunteering. They have helped me think more clearly about ways in which I can volunteer without sacrificing sleep…
A new study seems to score one for working mothers. A team of British researchers who have been tracking since birth some 1,100 women born in 1946 found that, by…
Fellow blogger Anne Tergesen’s recent entry on volunteering and the working mom resonated with me and several readers. Just last week, the subject came up for me in two contexts:…
Working parenthood is famous for its conflicts. As the school year winds down, the no-win dilemmas really pile up. Sports day, the class picnic, the year-end recital, the championship game—no…
I just returned from a week off. Our itinerary (Disney World, Yankee spring training) wasn’t designed to maximize R&R. But despite activity-filled days, I did get some much-needed mental downtime….
I haven’t been able to keep up with the barrage of news coverage about Katie Couric’s jump to CBS. Frankly, the thing I’m most interested in is how the change…
I’ve been enlightened, encouraged, as well as amused by the comments my Q&A with Mommy Wars author Leslie Morgan Steiner sparked from readers. My fellow Working Parents bloggers have done…
Trolling the blogsphere, I just noticed that Leslie Morgan Steiner, editor of “Mommy Wars”—a collection of essays by writers including Susan Cheever and Jane Smiley—has written a blog on the…
Can you believe that women hoping to advance their careers once were advised not to keep personal pictures on their desk lest the boss think they cared more about their…
Sometimes, part-time is the best of all worlds. Other times, it’s undeniably the worst of all worlds—delivering part-time pay for full-time hours (not to mention the extra stress of worrying about how you’ll ever manage to accomplish it all.)
I hate to say it, but I’ve seen some pretty stressed out parents who work part-time. They may say they work only three or four days a week. Their…
There’s an excellent oped piece in today’s New York Times that bolsters the case of many commenters on this issue—there really is no raging mommy war, because most women work….
Time flies when you are changing diapers, reading fairy tales, and not getting enough sleep. My wife can hardly believe her time off is nearly over. Lyn’s employer provides a…
With the arrival of that first baby comes one of the most difficult and controversial decisions a woman ever makes: Stay at home or go back to work? Leslie Morgan…
I’m going to let you in on a little secret: I cheat on my husband with someone from work. Well, it’s not exactly cheating, and it’s not exactly a secret,…
Harold W. McGraw III, known to all of us at BusinessWeek simply as Terry, is chairman and CEO of our parent corporation, The McGraw-Hill Cos. As such, he’s involved with…
In my first entry to this Blog, I wrote about the challenge many of us face in managing our mobile offices without becoming a slave to the very electronic devises…
You know how your friends and family constantly clutter your Inbox with jokes and emails of unknown origin that make their way across the Internet? Most of them we spike…
To avoid our frayed nerves and hectic days from ruining our nights, Lyn and I have stumbled onto a few useful routines.
When I came home late Saturday night from 4-day business trip to Puerto Rico with the Belizean Grove, I had some concerns about what I would find. Usually when I…
In some cases, you can simply follow in the trail of the moms (as well as dads) ahead of you who did all the legwork.
Working Mother magazine is currently calling for entries for its’ 100 Best Companies list. This annual exercise is “intended to promote the interests of working moms in corporate America by…
Before I welcome you to BusinessWeek’s new Working Parents blog, I’d like to clarify something. We recognize that all parents, whether they go to an office and take home a…
Over the past couple of years, BlackBerry-toting moms and dads have popped up everywhere: At sporting events and on beaches, playgrounds, ski slopes and baseball diamonds. When my son’s first…
In this blog, BusinessWeek’s Lauren Young, Cathy Arnst, Diane Brady, Karyn McCormack, Anne Newman, Mauro Vaisman, Lourdes L. Valeriano, and Joy Katz, Mark Hyman, along with freelance writer Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, lead a broad discussion of the issues and day-to-day concerns of working parents, offering up interviews with work/life experts, examinations of relevant research, and their personal accounts of bouncing between separate, sometimes conflicting worlds.