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How Can You Live Large with Less?

Posted by: Lauren Young on April 10, 2009

Can you live large with less?

David Yeske, a certified financial planner in San Francisco, recently asked his clients and friends what it means to live big in the midst of such trying times.

For many people, the thought of doing anything “big” seems out of place when the real order of the day is to hunker down and play it safe. And we would certainly agree if our intended meaning for Live Big was simply to “spend big”, “live large” or indulge in some other form of excess. To us, however, Live Big is not about the size of your wallet, it’s about the size of your life.

In these crazy economic times, it can sometimes be difficult to remember the areas in our life where we can Live Big without spending (much, if any) money. But if we can find the place of gratitude for what we have, we can find joy in the most mundane of places, and, hopefully, at least get our minds off of how scary the world can feel at times.

Yeske says he has received an overwhelming flood of responses thus far. Some of my favorite Live Big suggestions include:

• Write an old-fashioned letter to someone

• Give a stranger a compliment

• Put a puzzle together

It’s pretty easy for me to find happiness in the small things. Music, for example, has the power to transport me to a bigger/better place in an instant. Lately, I’ve been using my iPod during the commute to and from work. Some favorites from my universal, feel-good playlist include Don’t You Worry About a Thing (Stevie Wonder), Jammin’ (Bob Marley), and Heaven/Where True Love Goes (Yusaf Islam).

Other things that help me Live Big:

Taking a yoga class at Mala Yoga

Reading my son a book, especially one by Mo Willems, who is hysterical

A square or two of Lindt 70% Cocoa Dark Chocolate

Petting dogs (We don’t have one—yet!)

How are you living big with less? What cheap or free things bring you joy?

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Reader Comments

Elmira

April 11, 2009 11:17 AM

Totally agree on the chocolate!

Jackie

April 11, 2009 11:20 AM

Well, chocolate will make you larger. And kids will suck the life out of you. So I sort of see where you're going with this.

Danielle

April 13, 2009 06:15 PM

Curling up with a cup of green tea and the latest issue of Dwell/New Yorker (or BusinessWeek!) is a great way to recharge. A square or two of chocolate doesn't hurt either ;)

Lunchbox Obsessed

April 14, 2009 01:18 PM

We invested a couple of hundred dollars in camping equipment last year and have started to really enjoy camping vacations. Sometimes you have to plan ahead to get good camping reservations, but most camping fees are $20 a night or less... makes for a fun and cheap vacation! We camped 5 nights along the southern coast of Georgia for about $100 + food and firewood cost. It was great!

Kelly

April 14, 2009 03:22 PM

$50 (including tip) for 1-hour incredible Chinese massage on East 4th Street in NYC

Rose

April 14, 2009 04:21 PM

I've been living local. Instead of pricy Manhattan restaurants, I've been trying to patronize cheaper, local establishments. (Mama's Empanadas cost just $1.49 each, cash only). On a slightly unrelated note - one of my concerns is what will happen to "up-and-coming" neighborhoods such as mine if local businesses start suffering and it becomes a less attractive place to live. (I know - it's not all on me, but still...)

DVilla99

April 16, 2009 01:21 PM

I had been trying to lose weight for a while but couldn't. I used to go to a gym then I lost my job to cheap labor in India. I found a bicycle on Craiglist for $20 and now ride it everyday for an hour or two, or three. I am dripping weight by the hour. Now I am losing weight, while looking to gain employment...

Candy

April 19, 2009 12:34 AM

Time with Family, BBQ's and three of us have small children , so the wives club (just family) meet once a week at Grandmas and have coffee and whatever we brought baked.

Also, our moms group has lots of get togethers for just the women, families and some friends have started couples nights for home sales stuff. All of it is mostly free and full of friends and family! Back to the grass roots for me!

Polly Pearson

May 1, 2009 04:14 PM

How do I live large?

Riding my old, robin’s-egg-blue Saab convertible with the top down – regardless of the weather. The kids especially go nuts for it, and wave their arms in the air like on a rollercoaster, when we crank up the music and drive up and down the hills of our town.

Daring myself to train for, and compete, in a sprint triathlon – and doing three more since.

Dunking in the outside hot tub behind my house -- the worse the weather, the more the fun.

Being outside for the first rays of day light, soaking up all the Spring signs of life, and watching for what has sprouted from the day before.

Taking a walk, holding hands with one of my kids, at night – walking along the sidewalks under the moon, when everyone else in the neighborhood seems to be worshiping the blue beam of light in their family rooms.

Having a date – anywhere, doing anything – with my husband.

Coming up with a wacky, out of the park idea at work, and putting it into action.

-- Polly Pearson

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