Posted by: Lauren Young on September 19
I, like many people in the financial world, have not seen much of my family this week. I hope they remember who I am.
Most of the time, I do a pretty good job of keeping my work-life balance near some semblance of equilibrium. But then there are times when the scales go completely off kilter.

This is one of those extraordinary moments. The meltdown in the global markets translates into extra hours at the office reporting and writing. And by the time I get home in the evening, I am toast. (Don’t tell my dentist, but I’ve been so fried, I haven’t been flossing my teeth at bedtime.)
I know I am not alone in my workaholic ways. This week I interviewed one of the most powerful investors around—this is a man who can move markets. He also has younger children, and he spent most of last weekend in the office.
During the course of our interview, we talked about what ails the global economy, and where investors should put money right now, but what I remember most is how, at the end of the conversation, he confided in me that his daughter misses him. She told him: “Daddy, I never see you any more.”
The whole world has gone to hell in a hand basket, my 401(k) is in the toilet, and all I really remember from the interview is a mental image of his daughter’s sad face.
This week I started putting little notes in my son’s lunch box. He’s only three, so he can’t read yet, but I’m hoping they will serve as a reminder that mommy is always with him.
Even when she is at work.
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Just wanted to say thanks for your blog. I too have had a week that has pretty much been one continuous day with NOT enough time with my daughter and way too much time at a job that is being severly impacted by the economy.
Your blog made me smile just to know that someone else out there is going through the same thing. So, Thanks!
Heather
Dido to Heather's comment. This week was rough for me at work and I did spend much time with the wee one. Thanks for reminding us that sometimes we just can't help it!
I just read "When Work-Life Balance Runs Amok" and know how hard it is to want to be with our loved ones when we're away at work. Thank you for your honesty and for exposing so much of yourself to your readers. Regardless of whether or not you decide to review my work, I think you're awesome
I believe in lunchbox notes! One of my favorite forms is to write with a ballpoint pen on a banana. Somehow, this still passes off as cool even though my son - AND all his friends -- can read the notes.
In this blog, BusinessWeek’s Lauren Young, Cathy Arnst, Diane Brady, Karyn McCormack, Anne Newman, Mauro Vaisman, Lourdes L. Valeriano, and Joy Katz, Mark Hyman, along with freelance writer Savita Iyer-Ahrestani, lead a broad discussion of the issues and day-to-day concerns of working parents, offering up interviews with work/life experts, examinations of relevant research, and their personal accounts of bouncing between separate, sometimes conflicting worlds.