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Elevator Awkwardness, Begone! Conversation Starters to Break the Ice


Enough about the weather. Successful charmers share their best close-quarter conversation starters.

“Ask people what their favorite app or game is.”—Randi Zuckerberg, CEO, Zuckerberg Media

“‘Where do you live? Where did you grow up? What do you do?’ With a few simple questions, we’ll know each other better.”—Rich DeVos, owner, Orlando Magic

“I’m often wearing a chef coat, so I’m easily identifiable. I always ask, ‘Where are you eating tonight?’ If they don’t have plans, I say, ‘Can I make you a reservation at one of my restaurants?’”—Daniel Boulud, chef, Daniel

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“‘What made you most excited today?’ The question makes people stop and think, and their responses give me insight to help them consider tomorrow with a new set of eyes.”—Kathy Bloomgarden, chief executive officer, Ruder Finn

“I notice something unique and find out about it, whether it’s great shoes or a bunch of paperwork. It’s very easy to bring attention to something in their world and enjoy the resulting conversation.”—Michael Serruya, co-CEO, Kahala Franchising

“I see whether the person has had a chance to exercise that day. It’s a relatable topic that people enjoy discussing.”—Jonathan Tisch, chairman, Loews Hotels & Resorts

“‘How’s your day?’ If I get a sigh or an eye roll, I attempt to lighten the mood. If I get a smile, then we’re off to a great start.”—Orly Adelson, president, ITV Studios America (ITV:LN)

“I find out where they are from and how they arrived. This frequently gives way to a frustrating story about traffic or airlines and, for me, a segue into the benefits of business aviation.”—Rene Banglesdorf, co-founder, Charlie Bravo Aviation

Cohen is the author of The Sex Diaries Project: What We're Saying About What We're Doing (John Wiley & Sons).

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